am i spotting?

i’m 17, and i’m sexually active, but recently i’ve started spotting, if it is spotting. the first time it happened was a month ago, but i brushed it off as my boyfriend and i had sex that night and i just thought he went too rough. ever since that day, each time i have sex, i start to bleed a little bit, and i talked with him about being rough, and he we started doing it more gentle now but i still keep bleeding. last night we had sex again, i woke up this morning to pee, and a lot of blood came out, compared to the amount that has been for the last month. i’ve been sexually active for about 2 years and this has never happened, it just started, in worried it could be something bad and i’m scared to tell my mom because she doesn’t know i’m having sex, she suspects, but she doesn’t know. i’m hoping a few of the older, more mature women on this app, who maybe had something like this happened to them and if they could let me know what it is, because google is definitely not helping lol. and i doubt i’m pregnant, i’m on the pill and we use condoms most of the time, if that helps with any background information, thank y’all!!