Am I a bitch...

Am I a bitch for wanting better... with or without my bf... this is my situation. So we been together for almost 3 years.. 1st year great he had a full time job he would fix himself work out.. we both worked out.. 2nd year kinda good because he still working but we both got lazy and gain lots of weight. but he lost his job 8 months ago.. found a job but less then a month he got fired... he is not taking care of himself.. has health problems because of weight gain.. I gain weight but not as much as he did... ok I understand it will be difficult to find a job because some Jobs do discriminate over weight ppl (they shouldn't but they do) I motivate him babe let's work out babe eat better babe go walk to the park babe go look for a job not just apply using your phone.. babe let's be more active.. just to mention we dont live together and we live 40mins apart and plus I work full time so we just see each other weekends. So he still doesn't have a job he still doesn't want to be more active. He keeps telling me he wants to move in, get married and have kids. I love him. But I work full time pay my own Bills pay my own rent.. I just want to know if I AM BEING A BITCH by wanting to break up because he doesnt have his life set???

Thank you ladies...