So, long story short. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 years. I found out I was pregnant November 12 then when I was exactly 6 weeks I miscarried with my first child, which was about almost a month ago. Apparently my mom talked to my boyfriend (mind you my moms side are all church of Christ and she’s never really liked my boyfriend to start with, I feel like him being black has a lot to do with it). She called him saying he better promise her he will do everything to not get me pregnant until I’m done with school and she cried an sound how devastated she was when she found out and cried herself to sleep.. needless to say my boyfriend cracked under pressure An promised her he wouldn’t when ultimately we decided weeks ago we wanted to try again for a baby, even though the first one was not planned. I’m 24 years old and I’m in school for medical sonography.. why would my mom not talk to me first and tell me that? And making him promise something like that? She’s always been very controlling over my life. She has been and was a stay at home mom and has never had to have a job.. what’s yalls input? I’m kinda upset and kind of like sure of course that sounds ideal waiting til I’m done with school. But I believe it’ll happen when it should? I know my mom is being a mom with good intentions but I try and be optimistic about everything, any advice!?

Update:

I took a pregnancy test earlier and it was positive guys I don’t know what to do. 😭