Am I silly for feeling this way?

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First off I’m sorry I know it’s Christmas but I’m so curious as to how others view the situation... I’m 35 weeks pregnant and my emotions are everywhere anyway. So this morning my fiancé went to pick his kids up from his ex partner. I know it’s Christmas Day but he gave his ex a hug and a kiss on the cheek. God I’m probably being pathetic but it’s kind of hurt me and threw me back a little. Purely because his daughter sat at the table while eating dinner and said daddy kissed mummy on the cheek and gave her a hug wanting a reaction out of me. (She’s 9 nearly 10) I’m more upset because he never normally does things like that and I don’t think he would appreciate it if I did it to my ex. There’s being civil and getting on for the kids but I think that’s to much? Please give me advice anyone :(

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No there is zero reason to kiss an ex on the cheek smh

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As a new wife to someone who has 2 kids with some one else yes way to much! I would be pissed. I would have a serious talk with my husband about it. A hug is one thing if you are in a super emotional situation but a kiss is inappropriate period.

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This is a women that he shares children with so I’m guessing a good chink of his life. You’ve just admitted his kid said it to get a rise out of you... it worked didn’t it? It probably wasn’t as intimate as she made out. I think you should be glad that they can be cordial. Idk it’s just not a big deal to me whatsoever.

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My ex has hugged me and given me a kiss on the cheek a few here and there Christmas’s when swapping kids and being cordial, but then his new wife and I also hug and kiss each other...she is the co-mom and I adore her tho (him, not so much). I don’t think you need to worry about it. He did spend a portion of his life and have kids with her, doesn’t mean it means anything. They aren’t together, you guys are. It takes a village.

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I would probably leave him.. dramatic or not. Idgad you don’t kiss/hug an ex!  Disrespectful I wouldn’t care if I’m pregnant or not..

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I’d be upset and hurt. You can be nice and friendly with an ex without kissing (even if it was on the cheek)

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I would probably not be comfortable with that, just depends though. I haven’t had the greatest experience with ex’s and their kids mothers. Before I had my daughter with her dad he used to go over to her house all the time. Sometimes even to stay the night and had me convinced that I didn’t understand because I wasn’t a parent. Found out later he was cheating...obviously! I was young and dumb.

Am I silly for feeling this way?

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