Hes sleeping on the couch
I really need to vent, and I'd like some opinions as well from someone who wasnt involved. I'm 32 almost 33 weeks along. The insomnia is real. I've gotten maybe 4 solid hours of sleep in the past 48 hours. We've traveled to three different houses for Christmas. One of which was out of state. Our last so far was today at noon and my lack of sleep+busyness was finally catching up to me. Inwas looking forward to finally being able go home without anything to do for another party for a few days until we go see his parents once they don't have the flu running rampant. We just finished eating, I ate a spoon full of baked beans and that was all on could manage. It was hot in the house because of so many people. I was already exhausted, now I'm feeling nauseous. And the braxton hicks were back. Suddenly my hubby starts talking about a movie. He had promised my younger sister and bunch of younger cousins that we would load up and go see a couple movies. We went last guest and it was PACKED. It sounded fun but I wasnt feeling up for it today. I told my sister and she got pissy. Shes 17. Saying how I didnt have to go. I always didnt feel good. I suggested we go tomorrow at 1. She gets even more pissy and says she cant. She has to work at 5. That it takes her an hour and a half to get ready and that it would stress her out. Shes only a hostess at cracker barrel. Only works 5 hour shifts. Hubby said I could relax at the theater. I can't sit still for two hours with BH. I just wanted to go to bed. Since he wouldnt budge from this sudden plan and no one else seemed to have compassion for my feelings, I asked hubby if I could have the keys and just take myself home. He said no. Like what the heck its my car. I'm so frustrated I start to cry. I cant help it. Finally after 30 minutes of practically begging, he just gives my sister cash and says were going home. On the way he said he didnt want to upset them by canceling. He didnt want to hurt their feelings. I asked him what about my feelings? His pregnant wife whos exhausted and in pain, who would love to go but after some well deserved rest and not when it's going to be super crowded. He didnt have anything to say after that. Once we got home he sat down with his video games and hasnt spoken to me since. I've been in bed, taken a 2 hour nap. He still won't talk to me. And my sister had the nerve to message me saying it sucked how I tried to ruin the movie for everyone. I feel crazy. Should I have just sucked it up or should they have had more compassion for me?
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