So recently I got employed at an assisted living home for the elderly and I absolutely LOVE IT! It makes me feel closer to my great grandparents that I’ve got to know and now that they’re gone it gives me peace caring for the residents at my job. I’ve only been working for 3 weeks and I feel like my boss is always getting onto me. Telling me to do things her way when she’s told me multiple times that everyone does things differently and the coworkers I work with. She always watches me specifically and has something negative about my work. It makes me feel vulnerable and a bit of an outcast. No one really includes me and it saddens me. This morning I didn’t wear my uniform due to the fact it was in a hurry to get breakfast ready and I had my hoodie on. My boss always wore hers so I figured it wouldn’t be an issue. Then earlier during the day my coworker didn’t have hers on and wore what she wanted but I was scolded twice? What the fuck. I got clean from drugs and alcohol back in July and after 5 months of staying clean I go and get this amazing job in Dietary and I feel like a failure to the residents and myself. I actually thought I was doing MY best. I take criticism well so I can learn but “screaming” at me through a message is NOT acceptable on her behalf. Idk what to do.. Should I report her to Human Resources if this keeps happening? Is this too much for a boss to be talking to their employee like that?