spouse questions

so we are having our third baby but anyone elses husband or bf or fiance seem like they are happy and excited and cant wait for baby to here but their actions speak very differently? I dont mean to be a complainer but what would you do if you felt like you werent supported? supported meaning he has only been to the ultrasound appts, doesnt really ask how appt go when he doesnt go to them, didnt help set up the nursery or help pick out anything for it, didnt help get anything packed or ready for hospital or for baby, when you are sicker than a dog on some days he has no sympathy just comments with "you wanted this" no we wanted this is what it should be. for these almost 9 months I swear there hasnt been a caring bone in his body. what would you ladies do?? this baby was 100% planned. I feel like he stresses me out that im having second thoughts on him being in delivery room