When you bring up a way he made you feel bad or said something hurtful to you and he answers with "I didn't do that'

When he was acting a certain way and you ask why and he says 'I wasn't acting that way'

When he says some passive aggressive shit and didn't think you could hear it and says 'That's not what I said, you imagined it'

Or worse, he wants word for word verbatim of everything that was said or done when he does something just so he can argue that 'I' was the cause of it or that I did it myself.

I am so damn tired of everything being my fault and a figment of my imagination that I wish that marriage certificate was imaginary. Nothing is EVER his fault in his eyes and if he upsets me and decides to own up to it occasionally then he gets mad at me for not being over it immediately. What is wrong with just saying you're sorry without saying it sarcastically? He is giving me so much extra anxiety just by being at home on his off days that I can't go a full day with him without being so tired I fall asleep at 5pm just to power nap and get ready for more bullshit.