My sister-in-law and I found out we were pregnant the same day, but I lost mine to a chemical. I got pregnant again a few weeks later, and I’m almost 8 weeks. She’s 12 weeks. During her early pregnancy, I was very supportive, and asked her how she was, and tried to uplift her spirits anytime she went through any of her nausea or worry or anxiety.

Since finding out I’m pregnant too, she barely talks to me. She doesn’t ask how I am, or how the pregnancy is. Nothing. I’m so sad over it. I hoped we could bond over it. Her pregnancy was accidental and we were trying over 7 months when we got our BFP, but she told my husband she felt like I was stealing her thunder.

I’m just feeling really sad.

I thought it’d be something we could share together, and it’s become something pushing us apart.

I have waited through all of the holidays to let her have her announcement, but I can’t help but now feel like I should have said forget it and have announced when I wanted to.

People suck.