Still not dilated or effaced @ 32 weeks

Went to the hospital today (was feeling off and my dr told me to go on in and get checked out) and apparently my cervix is still long. Still thick. And still tightly shut 😫 I know I shouldn’t be down about this but I’m in so much pain all the time and I just want her out of me soon. But I know that’s probably not gonna be the case 😭 idk how much longer I can take with this pain! Anyone else not dilated?