Is it a crime to not want to be lovey dovey?

So my boyfriend has been trying to get me to do sexual things with him for the past week but im just not interested. Im so tired. Mind you we do have two under 3 so it gets tiring. Sometimes i just like my space but to have someone there as to listen to and talk to. Well anyways all night he kept trying to start something like making out or touching me and i kept pushing him away cuz I thought it would lead to sexual things. We went to bed. He was mad. Ignored me afterwards. Then messaged me saying he cant even show me affection without me thinking its gonna lead to sexual things. How can i not think about that when he has been hinting it so much. If he doesnt like who i am then move on dude ugh