I don’t want to be like this.

Ch

Well my past relationships were really bad. All the way from cheating, to disappearing randomly. That’s all I know. I’ve been with my husband for 3 years now. We have kids together and I’ve moved to the states for him, and taken care of his kids when they are here. I’ve given him all the money I’ve saved up and I do what I can for him. Well recently he’s been very stand off ish, he’s locked his phone with a password, he doesn’t let me on his phone unless he’s over my shoulder watching, I watched him delete and text conversation recently and I just don’t know how to bring it up. I trusted him until I seen all this. Idk what to do or think. I don’t know how to bring it up. I don’t want to be this kind of wife.. help