TMI Question - about ejaculation

It seems like so much pours out of me when we are done. 😫 I’ve done so much reading and I understand that the right amount will go where it needs to but I can’t help and feel anxious that so much comes out of me. I think “ughhh potential babies!!” I know that sounds silly.

Does anyone else experience this?

Do you always put a pillow under your hips? (I did this last month but not last night).

I’ve heard of women putting in cups but haven’t tried it yet - have you?

Do you have any tips?

TIA!!