Post baby hair

Ohhhh my gawwwsh. I remember I could go like 4-5 days without washing my hair (don’t judge me I washed my mom bod😂) and now I can’t even manage a day before it gets greasy again. On top of that I have all these baby hairs that stick out at the crown of my head and I look like a baby chick. I look so awkward with my hair up and I look like a wet dog with it down🤔 I need some mom hair do Ideas. Quick up dos. Or things that help with dry scalp but oily hair.