OH not always up for DTD and it’s so frustrating!

So we DTD Sunday, I wanted to do it again last night but he wasn’t up for it. Today I’ve gotten my positive opk so I really want to DTD tonight before I go out at 8pm and I have a feeling he’s not going to be up for it and then I’ll feel so fed up that I will probably miss another cycle getting pregnant. He just doesn’t seem to get the importance of doing it enough during my fertile week and especially when I have my positive e opk 😩😩😩 Send me good vibes ladies that we manage to do it tonight!!!