Wanting a cycle buddy!!

Or just a buddy!! I've been feeling sort of discouraged these last two cycles. Health issues put a halt to TTC last month and this cycle my husband was away on business and now at the start of my fertile window we are both feeling under the weather (BDing is the last thing on his mind right now) Does anyone else feel like there's a force keeping you from conceiving?? Because really what're the odds!!?? I can't conceive if we don't BD!! Just frustrated! An wishing it could be easier!!