The hard part

I met the love of my life at age 13. I was 18 years old when he asked me to marry him... He was ready to go to the air force and he was going to sign his life over in a week. All of that changed when his mother called me saying he got arrested. Now im 21 years old and I am the next state over. I went to visit him for the first time since it happened and wow. He looked at me as if I was his whole world. I knew in an instant that he was going to be 100% who I would spend my life with. Now we have until November then he is in the halfway house. Does anyone have experience with that?

I live so far from him but we make it work.

How do you cope when you miss him so deeply? I literally FaceTime his mom and cry to her.

Im going to be starting law school soon and well... I want to get married already!

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Te

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Yes honey, it is definitely hard but this is a test from God!! If and when you survive this, you will be able to conquer anything with your marriage. Keep the faith and write lots of letters.😊

Te

Telisia • Jan 27, 2019
We use to talk on the phone a lot when the money flow was really good. He used to call like 5X a day but I cut it down. Now I send more emails through the JPay system and write more letters. I actually like it better because I express myself more through my words. I have a STRONG circle of friends that I connect with on a regular. I look at this time apart as a way to better myself as a person, a wife, and mother. I was actually losing myself in him because I wanted to make sure he had everything he needed as a husband and father. With this time, I am focusing on goals and aspirations that I let go because I was so focused on him. Sometimes God allows things to happen so HE can get our attention back on Him. As long as you keep your focus on God and allow Him to have free reign over your life, it will all work together in your favor.😊

Ja

Jairi • Jan 26, 2019
We talk on the phone alot because I make a decent amount of money but how do you do it?