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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. We have some friends that went through a lot of things because they couldn’t control themselves at parties so that is when we decided we would not go to any parties if the other wasn’t there. Yesterday we fought almost all day about silly things but he ended up coming over and we worked it out. But then he said he was going to a friends to hangout for a little bit, which to his “surprise” it was party with girls. I tried to be understanding and I was fully up until he stopped replying. 30,40,50 minutes went by and I hadn’t heard from him so obviously I’m going to be upset. We had a rule. And long story short I freaked myself out and told him I couldn’t do it anymore. He claims he sat in the car and cried but after he didn’t reply for over 2 hours I called him just to make sure he was alive. His friend answered and said he couldn’t talk because he was playing beer pong! He could play beer pong but not worry about me and how I feel sitting at home doing anything to try to get a reply from him. If the positions were switched he would’ve flipped out, but because I care for him I can’t picture myself every doing this to him. Was I in the wrong for breaking up with him. In this case what would you have done