My husband thinks wants to divorce me...

I kissed someone a few weeks ago... I know I made a huge mistake and I owned up to it and apologized... But he has completely shut me out, he won't look at me or even spend time with our daughter. I have asked if we could do marriage counseling or anything to help work through this and he said no.. 
I'm pretty much sitting around waiting for him to tell me if he wants to divorce me.. I don't know what to do I know I messed up.. 
But I can't keep it together in front of my daughter and it's killing me... I just want us to work through this... What should I do...