Did you question divorce after baby?

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I did. Those first three months were HARD on our marriage, we are at 8 months and things are right back to where they are supposed and we are a happy family. Never did I think I’d question my marriage, but the fact that we made it makes us stronger.

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I'm old school when it comes to marriage. You make vows & you're supposed to stick to them. Nothing could make me question my marriage. Unless the obvious (cheating) .

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Did I question divorce in a serious manner? Probably not. Did I question the strength of my marriage and some things about my relationship? You bet I did. 
At the end of the day, we were first time parents and having our beautiful baby was the hardest thing that our marriage ever had to adapt to. Our marriage was strong and healthy before baby, but those hormones and all that change, I questioned my faith in our marriage. I felt like my husband didn’t care about me and asked “how long can a marriage last like this?” 
We are 6 months in now and I finally feel like my husband and I have established our own private relationship that is separate from being parents. I think the thing about marriage is, in all honesty, there will be many times throughout the journey that you question it and wonder if it can survive. It takes security in your marriage to honor those thoughts and work through them. I think the easy “I have the perfect marriage” answer is: “no, I’d never .. blah blah blah” but MY truth is YES I’ve questioned my marriage and that’s okay and normal, because we aren’t perfect and neither is our marriage. We hit hardships and worked through them.

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I have to be honest and say yes. My husband was an over the road truck driver for the first 3 months of our baby's life and when he got a local position he felt like I didn't need any help because I had been doing it by myself. But, after a couple of arguments and talks, he realized that he was needed (he didnt think he could help much because i breast fed) and he has stepped up.

Did you question divorce after baby?

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