Needs some helpful advice please???

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So I’ll be having my daughter in 3 days!!! And my babydaddy a few months ago decided he didn’t want to be in the delivery room with me when I gave birth. He said that’s a moment he did NOT want to share with me!! (Cool). And now all of a sudden I’m getting close to my due date he wants to be there...(Still not in the delivery room) but coming to the hospital once she’s born but only with his gf that he left me for before I was even 3 months pregnant 🤦🏼‍♀️ so he can see her , bring me food etc. but you can’t be there to watch your daughter being born???!! But my question is..Do you ladies think I should allow his gf to come or nah?

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No no and no. He just met the girl. She can stay her butt in the lobby or don’t come at all.

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His main focus should be his daughter not if his girlfriend that you’ve not even had the chance to meet yet is allowed to come into the room to meet her. One step at a time for sure. Do what makes you comfortable. Maybe even explain to him you’d rather meet her once you and baby are home and settled first not when you’ve literally just had your wee girl. X

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Honestly 1st of all know tht you're gorgeous hes stupid. Then realize he doesnt deserve to be in the room sharing that moment any mf way even if he wanted to be you should shut tht shit down! Last, the girl who gets with a guy under those circumstances sent last long.  So let him see the baby because tht shows your maturity, but understand while he thinks tht bothers you it wont, which will eat him up worse than any spiteful move you could make.

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She’s probably wants to go because she feels insecure about your baby daddy being there with you and the baby. So she has to be there for her security and make sure you baby daddy doesn’t start catching feeling for you again by just seeing you with his little girl. So in my opinion Na! If she wants to go with him cool but homegirl can wait it out in the waiting room, outside, in the lobby, or in the car.

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Fuck no. He can come alone or he can wait.. just my personal opinion on that situation. He sounds like a really nice baby daddy! NOT. That’s your special moment with your child.. you shouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable! 🤦🏼‍♀️🤬

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Oooooof you are a nicer person than me to even consider it. He should be there but she needs to respect that this moment isn’t about her.

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My daughters 6 and her dad left me for another woman..... there’s no way in HELL I would let either of them be there..... he can visit when you get home and are healed enough that you are ready for visitors..... I gave my daughter my last name and I don’t regret it..... I also have sole custody now and he has access once a week and every other weekend. He gave it up without a fight. 
But him and his relationships have no place in mine or my daughters life!!! In my opinion ain’t no ring she ain’t no thing!!!! Especially considering I know my ex and he has tried to come back so many times behind her back.... he’s a scum bag and a lacklustre father! 
My fiancé now is 10 times the man my daughters father ever could be and chose to love my daughter and I unconditionally and build a life with us. Don’t let this magic moment be over shadowed by someone so selfish and disrespectful as to have another relationship when you are having his child. This is about YOU and your baby! Everyone else is not important during labour

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Part of me says let her just be in waiting room and not fight it because she may be in child’s life. But I wouldn’t want her in room. Same reason I won’t let my little sisters boyfriend in room because it’s a personal time that I don’t need a random 18year old hanging out

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If you don't mind her being there why not. If they're serious then she's going to be around anyways so I personally would let her see the baby. Do you still have feelings for him? Do you still want to be with him? Is his girlfriend respectful?

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