When do I tell my soon to be Ex husband that I’m pregnant with another man...

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My husband and I have been separated since the beginning of September 2018. It’s broken and will never be fixed. Since then I found someone else and now pregnant with this man. We both are so very happy and excited, please know we have known each other for years longer than I knew my husband. 
My husband and I just started the divorce process. I have family and friends tell me not to telling people until my divorce is finalized. But this is my first pregnancy as I don’t want to wait till the end of March to tell the world! 
Can anyone relate

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I personally wouldn’t post anything online or tell anyone that could possibly tell him or tell someone else that could tell him. He could potentially use it against you in court if he wanted to be a jerk. 
It’s sad to have to wait, though.

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In my state, even if it's another man's child, if you're pregnant during the divorce process it's marked down as the husband's child and that causes another set of paperwork to have to be processed so maybe don't say anything until you look into your states laws

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Definitely look into your state last regarding divorce and paternity. In my state (NC) you have to be legally separated for a year before you can finalize a divorce, and either party sleeping with someone else during that time counts as infidelity and can be used to make you at fault for the divorce. If you are getting into something like that, you surely want a lawyer before he finds out you're having someone else's baby.
Plus like others have said, your state may still assume your husband is the father and you may need extra paperwork to ensure your husband doesn't get any paternal rights.

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Keep it to yourself ur friends are right, he could drag the legal process and try to claim the baby since u guys are still technically married.

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Be smart about it not emotional and wait until your divorced

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I personally would refrain from posting in your position. It could potentially cause set backs with the divorce process, and extend things longer. You also don’t want people assuming you cheated who might be looking for reasons as to why this happened, which will likely be what happens if the relationship was established shortly afterwards. You’ll paint yourself as the bad guy unnecessarily.

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You don’t have to tell him, it’s not how business now you’re getting divorced. You’ve got no kids with him, no ties to the relationship so what you do is no longer his concern🤷🏻‍♀️

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You ladies are right. Thank you for your help! Much love to you all.

When do I tell my soon to be Ex husband that I’m pregnant with another man...

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