HELP. How to deal with confrontation after abusive relationships

We are both 23. Our daughter is a year old. I am a full time student, my parents support us (they pay for our rent and give me money for food).

My boyfriend, used to pay rent. He hasn’t in 7months.. he’s fallen into a depression and is stuck. He’s had addiction problems in the past. He is really broke. And has almost no motivation.

He has stolen from me, borrowed money and never returned it, and he has cheated on me after having our child. I do believe these actions are all drug related, not that I’m making excuses I just wanted to include it.

We haven’t been doing well living together. He doesn’t help around the house. He plays video games, hangs with friends. He doesn’t clean up.. what so ever.. if I do get him to help around the house, I have to get upset with him first. So I just stopped asking. It wasn’t worth the fight.

I love him. I want the best for him. I want him to be well, for the sake of our daughter.

But this is starting to take a toll on me. I need advice, a plan of action.

I have a lot of anxiety about confrontation because I used to be in an abusive relationship.

Any advice? :(