Too wet during sex! Help!

I get way too wet during sex. So wet that my SO doesn't feel anything at times and I don't either because there's no friction and we have to constantly stop in the middle of it to wipe me off, but then when I get wiped I get too dry and then I become too wet again. It's never the perfect consistency. What can I do to solve this issue? It makes having sex such a hassle :(