The « WHAT ARE WE » talk. Seeing him on Sunday and plan to have it face to face

There's something I wanna talk to you about. I don't know if you remember but when we first started talking on Tinder, I told you I was a romantic, you told me so were you and then we talked about not ghosting each other and stuff.

I know I've mentioned this before and I hate to come up as too demanding but I really do like you. I don't know if because of the face you make when you're driving me home, when you slowly bite your tongue as you’re trying not to fall asleep. or the way you randomly hugged me once or twice while we were out or even that air of authority that you have when you walk in a room. I like you but I can't afford to keep doing this without knowing how you feel.

Usually I can tell by how often people text or call, the way they care about little things, how much they notice about my outfit, the compliments and other little gestures (that the romantic in me adores)whether or not they want me and want to be with me. But with you I just don’t know. I think of someone doesn’t show much interest it’s usually because it’s not there but here I am anyway.

I'm not asking you to be my boyfriend, it's way too soon. I just want to know if you're in or out. How we casually dating? Am I your friend with benefits or are you interested in a real relationship just like I am. If you are not that's fine, I just want to know whether or not we're heading the same way or if we're just wasting time money and energy.

So tell me. What are we? What do you want?