Okay... so a year ago my husband and I moved across the country to be closer to my family. They had moved to this state four years earlier for my dad’s new job. I’ve been living away from them ever since. This past year has been great! I love living close to my family - I really missed them. Plus, this state is so much sunnier, warmer, over all better than where I was.

Well here is the problem... my husband finally got his new EAD work card we have been waiting for. He hasn’t been able to find a job in this area that pays well. We are running short on patience because my due date is in April and I won’t be able to work so he NEEDS to have a job by then that pays well. Anything we are finding either doesn’t have insurance we need for the baby or pays 10,000-20,000 less than he made before.

There is someone he knows who owns a business back in our old state who wants him to come back and work for them with really good pay and benefits.

I told my mom is heartbroken that we may move and she’s being so unsupportive and negative. I understand she is sad but it doesn’t make it any easier on me. I’m sad too if we move because I love the city we are in now and the life we have here and being close to my family. BUT we have to put our daughter and our needs first which is having money and medical insurance.

My mom is saying we should be patient and wait until we find a job here since it’s still January but my husband and I are just not sure 😕😩

Does anyone have any opinions or suggestions on this? I need unbiased and fresh insight.