When to visit new baby

Still trying 🙏🌈

I’m talking to one of my best friends about what her preferences are for visitors after she has her baby girl as I want respect her and her husband’s privacy. They are so excited and I am for them. Also I’m tearing up while texting her as I started trying to get pregnant about 6 months before her so coming up on a year and a half and I am terrified it’s not meant to be for us. I so badly want a baby with my husband. 😭 Will it ever be our turn? 🌈