Ok so this might be a bit to much ughhhh!!!!

Ok so lately my husband been hiding his phone in weird place like in a bag of a bunch of mail paper work and stuff then covers it up . So it really came to my attention was a few days ago I was hearing like a vibrating and I couldn’t figure out where it was coming from so that’s how I found it in there . I didn’t bring it up to his attention yet because he gets mean 😢also no sex for over a month or no oral and this is not normal we both love sex ... he only gets me things when it’s my birthday or a holiday now . The other day he claimed he was going to a friends house but I felt in my gut that it was more too it so I called his phone soon as he left and stayed on till he arrived there . He goes ok see you later I said ok bye. But I still knew something was not right I called again because I want to hear this friend voice so he calls him on 3 way to let him know he was out side and the friend said WHAT? YOUR OUT MY HOUSE? the friend laughs.AND MY HUSBAND HANGS UP THE PHONE ON ME !!! I have no patience to work this because I been through this for 6 years with my ex and it damaged me soo bad but I still worked on becoming a better me and letting myself heel before another relationship and I waited 2 years before I meet my husband and now I’m going through it again😢😢😢😢 I’m so lost because I’m a great woman I COOK DINNER EVERYNIGHT,HOUSE ALWAYS CLEAN, GREAT JOB AND PAYS BILL AND MORE .. I don’t kno what to do I’m braking down please help m