Upsetting comments/feeling unsupported

So this whole pregnancy my husband has said he hasn’t felt ‘connected’ to the baby. Which I can somewhat understand I guess it’s not his body changing or he isn’t necessarily going through it, however, this has been very hard I had HG in the first trimester lost like 14 pounds and it finally got better about 24 weeks then I ended up with SPD now I have been diagnosed with PUPPS which burns and inches like CRAZY I showed him my belly because it’s all red and inflamed and he’s like ‘it doesn’t look that bad to me’ and says I complain to much and I’m almost done being pregnant and we aren’t having more kids so just deal with it. I’m hurt and frustrated and just want some empathy from him. I’m currently 36w4d and just sad