Tonight my husband and I had the rough conversation that was brought up at my doctors appointment. Who will he choose if he had to save one life mine or the babies in case of a crisis/unexpected medical complication during delivery? Without hesitation he said he would choose the baby and I can’t even be mad at that. As a mother that would be the ultimate sacrifice to give my life for this beautiful life that’s growing inside of me. Yes I teared up thinking that she will grow up without me but I know he will be a great father and will keep my memory alive around her. Wow I can’t believe this has to be discussed but I guess it’s part of life. Did you ladies have the same conversations and how did it go? I don’t feel less loved by my husband. Honestly I don’t think I could live with the loss of another child...the catholic hospitals also believe in saving the babies so if this ever happened I know it’s the godly thing to do. I’ve had a great life so far and now it’s her turn. Ok I’m not dying y’all but this is just a reflection and wow it brought up so many emotions. Hormones lol. I will inform my mom of our decision because I would never want my family to resent my husband for his decision. I want them to know up front we are both ok with that.