“Pregnancy is a subject about which everybody has an opinion they want to share with you, whether you like it or not.”

Just had to share this on here because even on these feeds, everyone has an opinion and most of the time no one asked for it!

For example I posted once that I’m already thinking about having more babies. In fact, SO wants to pop in another by May 🤣, which is only a month after my due date. I just wanted to share how I felt and how excited I was about being a mom. But so quickly some ladies were to just judge my choice.

“You don’t know if you’re gonna have a fussy baby, it’ll be hard for you”

“You’re not gonna be as great of a mom if you have to focus on more than one child”

There was another time I posted a poll of baby names and someone said “no offense, but I don’t like either name” she even judged the way my SO’s late grandmothers name was spelled.

Many times I would post and delete because my hormones just can’t handle that shit and sometimes it’s just out of line.

And I know one bad attitude doesn’t account for every momma out there. But as a FTM with her rainbow, we come here for support and not to be discouraged or teased!