Hi my name is Ana. I am about to turn 21 & my love he is 26 about to be 27. We love each other very much and talk about marriage a lot. Given that I will graduate college next year and start graduate school for law school. He is working towards becoming a nurse practitioner. We have a long journey ahead of us but one of the most important steps in our life that we want is to get married. However, the more people I talk to the more different opinions I get in my head. My own mother got married at 21, & she constantly complains on how different her life would be if she didn’t get married and have kids so quickly. But me and my boyfriend are different we don’t want to rush to have kids and talk about supporting each other through graduate school.

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