You know what really grinds my gears? When men think women owe them something for some dumbass reason. For example, this guy started flirting with me through text and I was flirting back - playful, harmless, just some small fun. He knew I was super busy and my schedule is full of work, family issues (helping my sick mother to the hospital weekly), maintaining my master degree program, taking care of my pets, volunteering weekly, and scheduling committee meetings monthly for upcoming projects in my daily job (I work 7am to 5pm every day, sometimes I can Saturday off) Even though he knew how busy I was (barely able to text some weeks), he kept asking me out on dates. Super cute, really flattered - but then he did it too much after I explained SO MANY times "I'm not looking for a relationship right now, I have a lot of stuff going on especially with my terminally ill mother." He kept flirting with me so I told him I don't want to lead him on but he said flirting was fine. It's a lot to take in when you're just starting off in life after college and your parent gets very sick. I'm just so tired some days. Like give me a break, I'm trying my best. I kept telling him I can't go out with him because I barely have time for myself or even sleep. He kept flirting, ok I'll play safe.

I finally got it through his head (all in texts mind you) that I simply don't have time and I'm not looking to date. He got soooo pissed ay me and was like, "Fuck you, all of a sudden you can't make anytime? You fucking owe me because you kept talking to me. I can't get a simple quick fuck? I've been putting all the moves and now you can't make time. Jesus Christ."

Firstly -- WTF. I made it clear from DAY ONE I was not looking for anything serious, I don't have time, and he didn't need to keep texting me if that's all he wanted. UGH. I completely blocked him because he was dissing my sick mother. He can fuck off. Who agrees? Im so angry right now I just needed to vent, thanks for reading!!