Bonding without knowing gender

Makayla

Hello ladies! from the get go my husband and I didn’t want to find out the sex of our baby (and still don’t). However, now that I’ve hit 21 weeks and we *could know if we wanted to it’s driving me kind of crazy not knowing. Im wanting to start bonding more with my little one but having a hard time doing so when I’m just saying “baby” or “it”. Lol. Any pointers on bonding when you don’t know the sex?