For everyone who just started TTC and who have been trying for years

How do you deal with it.

My husband and I have been together for 8 years and finally want to start a family. I’ve been wanting to be a mom since I was a little girl, and now at 27 years old I feel like we SHOULD be conceiving quick?

I don’t know if that makes sense.

But we started in December so this is only our second month trying and I got AF today, I feel so sad and just depressed. I realize we JUST started, but I also feel like everyone around us is getting pregnant and by accident, and so easily! I know there are tons of women/families that have been trying for years, and I almost feel like I shouldn’t be upset because of that. I know there’s other women with this pain, and even worse.

I guess I just wanted to know how you guys dealt with the constant BFN’s every month, and what you guys do to get back on the horse so to speak.

Thanks!