my mother in law has banned me from her house for basically just not letting her walk over me. My husband agrees I did nothing wrong and his mom is being petty and it isn’t the first time she’s done something like this. Anyways we’ve made efforts to reach out and sent a Christmas arrangement and also a baby shower invite but when my husband called her to ask if she’s making it for the shower she had a prior arrangement. That I’m not concerned about but in the same conversation she brought up that I hate her and doesn’t want her to have anything to do with the baby. Also that he better be careful bc I’ll shove him out of the kids life if he doesn’t do everything I want him to do. Then she went on to talk about his ex and how she came over to her place and brought flowers (same girl who cheated on my husband for years with many men including his brother)!

I told my husband I’m done. I can’t spend this energy trying to include her and I just get disrespected with crazy notions that have no validity. Maybe a year ago I would’ve called her and gave her a straightening out but really I can’t care and stress over nonsense.