Okay, we got married in June of 2018. I just got my Mirena IUD out this past Friday and am on my first real period since May of 2016.

During our dating/engagement, we would try to be abstinent. Since we were already living together, that was hard and we often failed. So in the end, we got married sooner than planned so we could have sex.

Fast forward to getting my IUD out. It was giving me insane PMS. And I was a raging b*tch for 2 weeks out of the month. We decided that we should get it out and take different precautions to not concieving a child right now.

I've had baby fever for as long as I can remember. I'm always ready to have a baby. But hubs on the other hand, is not. I want to have a break from birth control and let my body be natural for a while. However, he doesn't want to use condoms either. So we decided on pull out. Well that also scares him because of the small chance of pregnancy. So his solution is to not have sex at all until we're ready to have a child (which could be August) and I cannot go 7 months without sex. That's just not gonna happen.

So if you made it this far in my post, thank you, and do you have any suggestions. I really just needed to vent but also looking for some solutions.

Wedding pic for making it this far. 😁