Before anything I just want to apologize for my English since it’s not my first nor my second language I speak.

Me and my husband have been married for almost four years now. I am 22 years old and he is 31 years old.

If you ask me about him I immediately think about how wonderful he is as person. He have a lot of respect when he talks to me and a lovely tendency where he always put me first, with everything. When me and my girlfriends are talking about relationships, they always mention him and categorize him in the “perfect” husband category. (They are actually his friends wives, so they are +10 years older than me).

Well... I agree with them beside one thing and I dosen’t really know if it’s a good or a bad thing.

He is very modest as a person when it comes to how his wife should dress but with everything else he is very free minded in.

When we first did get married he used to small talk about it and started to explain that it’s very

difficult for him to see his wife with some cleavage or showing “to much” skin, outside.

And after one year or so, he started to beg me if I could respect his opinion and after a lot of arguments I did accept it. But today, I don’t know if I can keep with it. On our wedding day I did have a deep cleavage and everything before that I could wear whatever I wanted. He used to comment but nothing more than that.

I have been sleeping at my mums place for almost one month now and he keeps telling me that he could corporate with me about everything beside that one thing.

And it’s very annoying for me because how I dress makes me feel happy, beautiful and so much more. And I get jealous when I see other women’s have cute outfits I wish it could be me.

If I choose to wear a top and I am not really sure if he will like it or not I should do the mirror test. Where I bend front of the mirror and if I could see any cleavage then I should put something under or back into the garderobe.

And I should wear long tops over my jeans or a cardigan since he dosen’t like when you can see my form and when it comes to skirt/dresses it should be knee length.

I honestly dosen’t know if I should divorce because of that while I know that he is perfect with everything else. So I was wondering what you as a person would do in a similar situation like mine?