Frustrated!!!!!

It seems like im always battling my so for sex. We dont have sex on the days he works bc he works long hours so i dont even try. Lately it seems like i have to wait for his shows to go off just to approach him. Im soooo frustrated. Today i text him a few sexy messages. He responded that he wanted to do all that tonight. So i thought it was a go. I get home and he says....well tonight is wrestling. Omg!!!! Really. Wrestling over sex with your gf. I give up! Any advice about this?