So I started spotting tan/brown Thursday on 14dpo. Only happened twice. Spotting yesterday afternoon 3x, but seemed a little heavier. Was pink after a bm. Assumed af was starting since that is how it usually starts. My cycles lately had no more than 30 days long. Today is cd33, 16dpo and af has not fully shown her face. After my surgery in November I did have a 16 day lp so I know my body can be off, also had spotting for 3 days leading up to it. But since then I have been all over the place, but only one day of spotting prior to af starting. I hate this guessing and waiting. Tested negative in the evening on 13dpo. We already plan on taking a break until March, I deleted all tracking apps and packed up my stuff. Only reason I am still on here is I kept Glow baby, I can still go on the community but not obsess over what cycle day I am on.