Drawing on emotions

Ok so I have a slightly unusual problem, I tend to draw on other people's emotions without realising it and then thinking they're my own. Anyway I think im genderfluid but I'm can't be entirely sure because I may just be drawing on someone else's emotions without realising it and I don't want to come out just to realise that it was a false alarm and I was wondering if anyone had any tips on how I can be totally positive about this and if anyone else has gone through this