TTC is hard enough

Add in different sex drives and it's just an even bigger puzzle but with a piece missing

I'm in the process of getting a diagnosis for myself about why I don't have periods, am I ovulating. If I am, when?

I take my temp and do OPKs daily to try to find some pattern.

Last night I had the highest OPK reading ever and said to my husband we should try to BD today.

My husband is already asleep lol

He has such a low sex drive and it's been an point of conversation for 4 years now (he's been tested for low testosterone twice and he's normal)

It's been 4 years like this that I've just become use to it so when our sex drives don't match, it doesn't even upset me anymore. It's just expected

I feel frustrated and sad