Just want to cry

My husband is nothing but an asshole to me. He turns everything into a fight. Then tells me how it's my fault he has anxiety and can't work. He owns a business and will oy work if I work it with him. He tells me ever since he met me his life has gone to shit.

Before he met me lived at home, never had a girlfriend and never had any bills or responsibilities. His family took care of him and paid for everything, even paid to get him out of debt 3 times.

I work with him at the business, take care of our 2 kids, clean and cook.

He tells me that's your job and I dont care if you get no sleep.

Everyday its something. All I do is cry. I'm stuck financial and his family has money and I have none. Since I work for the business if I leave there goes my job. If I leave(him and his family) they have told me they will make sure I lose my kids.

I'm at a loss and just needed to vent.