Has anyone delt w PTSD?? My dh spent a lot of time in the war, & I know he should be messed up. We’re newlyweds... & I didn’t think he had any trauma from what he went through. He can watch war movies, he doesn’t get anxiety from loud noises, etc...

SO.. Dh is the most sane, rational person I know. We have had arguments where he speaks calmly to me & I end up thinking I’m the crazy one, even tho he was in the wrong. I call him a politician, bc he just always knows the exact right thing to say in every situation. Everyone loves him. Even my exes love him & hate me!

BUT. There has been a couple instances now. Where he gets mad at me & I can’t follow what he’s mad about. He snaps at me, but he will say later that I was yelling at him. I know I wasn’t bc my 15 yr old daughter was there & she was like, “wow, he’s mad at you” It’s like he remembers things differently than how they happened.

I ask bc I wonder if he’s having some PTSD of some sort? Bc he seems so crazy at these times, when he’s usually not. At all.

Sorry if I’m all over the place, just got yelled at by my sweet husband who is usually very affectionate & loving & not sure why...