my boyfriend and i just had a conversation about how people are naturally sexually attracted to one another and that it’s normal for us to find other people attractive (there are so many people in the world, how likely would it be that we find nobody else in the world attractive other than our significant others?) he said he’d find it hard to believe if i wasn’t sexually attracted to anybody else (we just don’t act on it). then it occurred to me that occasionally, there would be a person here or there that i could see myself being sexual with if i was single or if it was consensual group sex. however, knowing that he also finds others sexually attractive somehow got me feeling weird. i’m so silly... i am starting to see the logic as i’m typing this out and realizing i understand it better now and perhaps the weird feeling will go away soon