Me and my sister have never lived with my mom until 4 years ago, we have always lived with grandpa throughout the week and weekends with my grandma (which my mom lived with).

Me and my sister have never had a pediatrician, a dentist or anything like that.

We don't have medicine so I always get sick and have to wait till it's worse for her to Do something.

She makes sure she's okay, has vitamins for herself, probiotics everything, she never don't that for us.

She's only bought me pads 2× and made my grandpa pay her back even though he has bought them for me since I first started.

My grandpa has bought all my clothes, underwear, socks everything since I was born.

She dates toms of guys and leaves for days, leaves out of state and doesn't tell us till the day of.

She blames her getting raped on me.

■MY BOYFRIEND'S MOM■

My boyfriend's mom took care of me while I was sick, made sure I took medicine, made me soup.

When my cramps were so bad I couldn't get out of bed she brought me Advil, she made me food that would help with my cramps, she bought me pads.