Trying to boost our relationship back up

Me and baby’s father broke up. We are now trying to work it back out. After a year. He says he misses his family and all. We both broke up because we both were young minded and childish. We both needed to grow. But he came to see me yesterday and it was just weird. Like we didn’t talk we just listened to music and apologized to each other. We were soo comfortable with each other before. How can i like bring this spark back for one another ? We’re not in a relationship just trying to work on us sooo this is my idea...

To ask him to be my valentine. Since he did say I was always so selfish in our relationship I wanna show him I do care about his feelings also...

I was gonna get a hotel room...put roses on the floor get balloons and such run a bath and then I was gonna write 100 little notes on why I love him and put them in a jar...I was gonna get him a valentine basket , and a pair of shoes. I was gonna pick 1 sex toy and bring whip cream lol. Then I was gonna bring a scary movie than a funny movie. Then I was gonna bring him his work clothes since he does have to work in the morning... does this sound good. Then I was gonna get 3 different types of sushi for us... and covered chocolate strawberry. Then I was gonna write a long letter of a apology...I’m gonna get lingerie for the first time I have always been insecure because I’m a A now after I breastfeed I lost them all 😪

I know things take time but I really would like to be a family with him again and be happy with him. Do men like this type of stuff. I have never done this