I am currently 5 months pregnant and it’s still hard to tell so when I tell people I’m pregnant they almost immediately ask if this is my first pregnancy. I tell them no and of course they ask how many kids I have. I know they’re just being curious but as a mom that has lost a daughter I hate this question. Not counting her makes me feel like I’m ignoring her existence but I also don’t like sharing that with strangers. There have been times I answered I already have two and they ask their age and it just makes it more complicated. Maybe it’s just me but I’m wondering if any other moms feel this way too.