Just witnessed a heartbreaking discussion between some married friends that are TTC.
I don’t believe that “Once a cheater always a cheater,” but I do believe that, married or not, you cannot force anyone to stay with you once you’ve cheated. The pain doesn’t go away, you just learn to handle it better. You may not want to leave right away, but you have the right to leave whenever you want.
Some marriages can be restored, after a few years, if both partners put in the work. It can happen. Just because one woman’s husband kept cheating on her doesn’t mean that yours didn’t learn his lesson the first time.. but if you don’t want to stay or feel like you can’t forgive your spouse DO NOT STAY. You can get all of the revenge in the world and still be hurting. It takes serious soul searching. No one can judge you either way, your vows = your decision..
Love yourself first and decide from there