Am I being crazy?

Lynsey

this is about a fight I had with my sister in laws. I’ll make it short and then tell the long story with details. The sister in laws tried to fight me and got violent when I did ABSOLUTELY nothing to them back in June and haven’t spoken or apologized to me since. My husband and I are expecting our first baby in a couple weeks now and I don’t think they should be able to interact with my baby at all. Am I wrong for this?

—Back in June when I was 4 weeks pregnant and didn’t know it yet, my husband, his sisters, and I got into a big argument. The way it went down is this...

We were in an apartment where you had to pay for laundry by the load so we usually did our laundry at his moms house(who had absolutely no problem with it). One day we go over to his moms to do our laundry, the laundry room is in the basement (behind a closed doors) but that’s also where his 2 sisters and one of their friends were sleeping, we didn’t know they were down there because there’s curtains that separate the sitting/sleeping area from the stairs and laundry room (it was 11am so not a crazy time). My husband decided to play music from his phone while we did all of our laundry with the door to the laundry room closed. Within a few seconds his one sister- let’s call her L- busted in the room cussing and yelling at my husband about the music.

-Now, a month prior to this my husband and his brothers got in an argument with the sisters about something super dumb, I was there but didn’t get involved because everyone knows that it’s too much drama to have problems with in laws. During this argument the sisters both bring me into it because they’re mad with my husband and say “he’s cheating on your he does it all the time and We have proof”... look I’m nosey and psycho so I knew for a fact that he was not he’s a very loyal man, his brothers told me they had done that to my husbands girlfriends in the past when it wasn’t true also, but I stayed calm and just said to them if that’s true then prove it. The sisters and I had always been close to if that were to be true I’d appreciate them coming to me. They never gave me any proof and didn’t talk to me ever since that incident-

Back to June a month later when this laundry room incident happened... my husband and his one sister, L, are going at it, they haven’t talked since the previous fight in May. All the sudden his other sister, we will call her K, joins in yelling at my husband. This whole thing is so stupid let me say because it could have been handled very easily. They are all yelling and arguing I’m minding my business as usual continuing to do the laundry and staying out of it because I don’t want any trouble between me and the in laws. Out of nowhere both of the sisters start to call me a dumb bitch and all other things and try to tell me he’s cheating on me once again😂. I was completely calm and asked them 1 what I did to them that they’re calling me names and bringing me into this and 2 where is the proof you have for me. They WOULD NOT address anything I was calmly saying to them. To be honest they are ratchet and immature, the type of girls that have to yell and scream and not have a rational conversation. So after me trying to talk to them nicely about what they’re saying I get mad too (which is not a pretty site) and I start to yell back telling them to leave me out of their jealous bitch mouths. My husband is still arguing with them too at this point he’s yelling and cussing they are yelling and cussing I’ve gone back to the laundry because I don’t want any part of it and they obviously won’t just talk to me.. then things turn violent. Both sisters say that they’re going to “beat my ass”.. my husband closes the laundry room door telling them to leave me out of it and trying to protect me.. they go ballistic like they are possessed start banging on the door and they bust the door down. I’m scared at this point so I once again try to ask them calmly why they want to fight me. One sister, K, takes my car keys and runs outside to my car and KEYS MY CAR!! Now I’m furious that was the last straw so I go back upstairs, they said they wanted to fight so they’ll get a fight. We are all still inside but upstairs at this point and the same sister K tries to punch me in the face but she missed(lucky for her or I would’ve pressed charges). My husband sees this and puts me in my car and we call the police the girls barricade themselves in the houze and try to ignore the cops. I didnt press any charges becasuse I figured we would all y’all and they’d apologize within a few weeks, because that’s what I’d do if the roles were switched... APOLOGIZE

Anyway!!!!! It’s been 9 months practically, we are always at his moms house because my husbands very close to his mom and brothers and I’m not going to take that away from him because of his terrible sisters. So the sisters, and my husband and I haven’t spoken since that fight back in June. A couple of weeks ago his one sister L has been trying to talk to us a lot and seems like she knows she was wrong. So I’ve let things go with her I’m willing to start fresh. His other sister K the one who tried to hit

Me and keyed my car still hasn’t shown any humility or maturity at all. Just ignores me. She posts things on her Snapchat about “oh I cantwait to hold my niece” (talking about MY daughter that will be born in a couple of weeks). The way I see it is she isn’t allowed to even look at my baby let alone hold her or care for her!!!! She hasn’t spoken to me in 9 months and can’t humble herself enough to admit she was wrong. I know that if I try to talk to her about this it will go south very quickly and I have no time for that in my life.

-the point of me posting this is... am I crazy to not let her be around or interact with my baby???? She was violent and acted very irrationally without thinking showing me that she’s not the kind of person I can trust to be around my baby. What if she tries to hurt my child because I tell her she can’t hold her??? My husband agrees with me but I know that the day will come that everyone will be trying to look at our new baby and hold her and I will have to tell K that she needs to get away from my child. My MIL is very much the mom that doesn’t step in and will let K be with the baby if I’m not around even if I tell her not to let K be with the baby. Am I being over the top here?? Someone please help

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